Optimists annoy me

You, mon cherie, are afraid of yourself, you don't want to be hurt, and you have a negative self image and you are terrified that people once they get to know will reject you, so you do it before they do it. Ta da!

Please, just be a little bit more trusting of you, consider the following:

1. Make a list of your qualities 
2. Make a list of your shortcomings 
3. Make a list of your favorites activities 
4. Tell the people you know, the ones with whom you feel good of course, what you like about them, and then ask them what they like about you.

The first two will give you a fresh perspective about yourself, the third one should give you the chance to do what you like, and while you enjoy your favorite activities you can meet people with whom you'll have a greater chance of being compatible, the last is an exercise of love. Trust your instincts about yourself and others. Also, accept that there will be rejection, some people will hurt, and you'll do the same too, is all part of life. Just live, there will be people that will tell you that you should treat people as you want to be treated, is true, but a warning: there are individuals that no matter how you treat them they will not correspond, and will use you as a punching bag just let them go, don't let them in your life.

Last thing, forget about the past, with that I mean this: remember it so you don't make the same mistakes all over again, and also if you ever meet someone that is like the people that hurt you in the manner they talk, act, treat you and others, run like hell....You know why because now you can choose the people in your life. Don't make your past your present, just use it as a reference page. Now, my dear enjoy your walk in the sun, along with the occasional rain. Use the power of positive actions, actions, I said, not thinking, why? Because, you can think all you want, but one must get ahead and do, no matter what.